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The Real Reason You're Exhausted All Day

energy fatigue posture strong spine Feb 06, 2026

The Real Reason You're Exhausted All Day (And It's Probably Not What You Think)

You're doing everything right.

You eat healthy. You take your vitamins. You try to stay active. You even get a decent night's sleep most of the time. And yet, by noon, you're already thinking about lying down. You want to spend time with friends, work in the garden, take that walk you keep promising yourself—but you just don't have it in you.

Sound familiar?

Here's the frustrating part: when you finally drag yourself to the doctor, convinced something must be wrong, they run the bloodwork. Thyroid? Fine. Cholesterol? Normal. Vitamin levels? All good. "You're healthy," they tell you with a smile.

But you don't feel healthy. You feel tired. You feel old. And you're starting to wonder if this exhausted, drained feeling is just your new normal for the rest of your life.

I'm here to tell you: it's not.

The reason you're so exhausted probably has nothing to do with your age, your labs, or your willpower. And it's something most doctors never even think to check.

It's your spine and posture.

Now, I know that sounds strange. You're probably thinking, "What does my back have to do with my energy levels?" But this is one of those things that once you understand it, you'll wonder why nobody ever told you before.

Let me explain.

Your Body Is Working Overtime (And You Don't Even Know It)

Think about what happens when your spine is properly aligned. When you're standing tall with your shoulders back and your head positioned directly over your shoulders, your body barely has to work to keep you upright. You're balanced. Everything is stacked efficiently, one piece on top of the other. Your muscles can relax because gravity is doing most of the work.

But when your posture is off—when you're hunched forward, when your head juts out in front of your body, when your shoulders round forward—everything changes.

Now your muscles have to fire constantly just to keep you from tipping over. It's like trying to balance a broomstick on your hand versus laying it flat on a table. One requires constant effort and adjustment. The other requires nothing.

Your body is burning through energy all day long just trying to stabilize you. And you don't even realize it's happening.

This is what I call muscular inefficiency, and it's the first way poor posture is secretly draining your energy reserves.

Think about it. From the moment you wake up until the moment you go to bed, if your posture is off, your muscles are working overtime. They're compensating for the imbalance. They're keeping you from falling forward. They're holding up your head, which weighs about 10 to 12 pounds—but when it's positioned forward instead of centered over your spine, it can create the equivalent of 30, 40, even 60 pounds of force on your neck and upper back.

No wonder you're exhausted.

The Stress Response You Didn't Know You Had

But here's the second part, and this is the one that really surprises people: your nervous system.

Your spine houses your spinal cord, which is essentially the main communication highway between your brain and the rest of your body. Every message, every signal, every instruction travels through this pathway. When your posture is good and your spine is properly aligned, that communication flows smoothly.

But when your posture is off, those spinal misalignments can disrupt nerve flow. And here's where things get really interesting.

Poor posture doesn't just affect your muscles and joints. It puts your entire body into a constant low-grade stress state. You're essentially stuck in fight-or-flight mode, which means your body is pumping out cortisol—the stress hormone—all day long.

And what does cortisol do? It tanks your ability to focus. It makes you feel anxious and on edge. It disrupts your sleep quality. And yes, it absolutely drains your energy.

Good posture, on the other hand, supports your parasympathetic nervous system. That's your rest-and-digest mode. That's the state where your body can actually relax, think clearly, and have energy to spare.

So when people come to me saying they're exhausted and nothing's working—they've tried everything, changed their diet, taken supplements, seen multiple doctors—this is one of the first things I look at.

Because here's the truth: if your spine is out of alignment, it doesn't matter how much you sleep or how many supplements you take. Your body is fighting itself. And you're going to feel tired no matter what you do.

What You Can Do About It

Okay, so now you understand the problem. Your spine and posture are working against you, draining your energy in ways you never realized. The question is: what do you do about it?

Let me walk you through the solutions.

Step One: Assess Your Posture

First, you need to know where your spine actually is right now. You can't fix what you can't see or measure.

From the front, you want to be straight up and down. Your head should be centered over your neck, your neck centered over your trunk, your trunk centered over your pelvis. Everything stacked, nothing leaning to one side.

From the side, you want the same vertical alignment, but you also want three balanced curves. A gentle curve in your neck, a curve in your mid-back, and a curve in your low back. These curves act like springs, absorbing shock and distributing forces evenly throughout your spine.

Standing spinal x-rays will show you exactly what's going on with precision. But even simpler methods can be helpful. Look at your posture in a mirror. Take pictures of yourself from the front and side. You'll start to see patterns. Maybe your head is forward. Maybe one shoulder is higher than the other. Maybe your upper back is more rounded than it should be.

This assessment is critical because it tells you what needs to be corrected.

Step Two: Specific Postural Exercises

Once you know what your postural distortions are, you need specific exercises that counteract that particular distortion. Not just generic stretches or core work, but movements designed to reverse the imbalance your body has developed.

If you're rounded forward in your upper back, you need exercises that extend and open your chest and shoulders. If your head is too far forward, you need exercises that strengthen the deep neck flexors and stretch the muscles that have gotten tight from holding that position.

The key word here is specific. Cookie-cutter exercises don't work because everyone's spine is different. What works for someone else might not work for you.

Step Three: Postural Awareness Throughout Your Day

Here's something most people don't think about: it's not just about doing exercises for 10 or 15 minutes a day. It's about how you move through your entire day.

How do you sit at the table? How do you stand at the kitchen counter? How do you bend down to pick something up or tie your shoes? How do you wash your hands at the sink?

These small adjustments add up. They either protect your energy or wear it down, bit by bit, hour by hour.

You need to develop postural awareness. That means paying attention to your body position during everyday activities and making conscious choices to maintain better alignment. Sit with your feet flat on the floor and your back supported. Stand with your weight evenly distributed. Bend at your hips instead of rounding your back.

It sounds simple, but these habits make a massive difference over time.

Step Four: The Main Solution—Supportive Traction

Now here's the big one. The solution that actually creates lasting change in your spine and posture.

Supportive traction.

Before you picture some medieval torture device, let me explain what this actually is. Traction is a gentle, progressive way to stretch your spine in the opposite direction of whatever distortion you've developed over the years.

Think about it this way. Your spine has been in a certain position for years, maybe even decades. The ligaments that hold your vertebrae in place have molded to that position. They've tightened and adapted to support the curve or misalignment you have, even if it's not healthy.

Traction works by gently stretching your spine in the opposite direction, helping to remold those tightened ligaments, realign your vertebrae, and take pressure off the joints, muscles, and nerves that have been compressed.

And the best part? It's simple. You can do this at home.

Here's an example. Let's say you're really hunched over in your upper back—so much so that when you lie flat on your back on the floor, your head doesn't even touch the ground. Unfortunately, that's more common than you might think.

Your traction protocol would be this: just lie on the floor and gradually increase the time you spend there. Start at one minute. The next day, add another minute. Keep building like that until you get to 15 or 20 minutes.

That's it. You're literally just lying there, letting gravity gently pull your spine back toward proper alignment.

Now, I'll be honest with you. It might feel uncomfortable at first. You're working against years—maybe decades—of distortion. Your body isn't used to this position. But it shouldn't hurt. You might feel some soreness or tightness, but if you're getting sharp or shooting pain, you're probably going too fast. Back off a bit. Or there may be something more serious going on, in which case you should stop and get it checked out.

Now, let's say you can lie down and your head does touch the ground. In that case, you might need a little elevation under your mid-back. A folded towel or blanket works perfectly. You might also want to put a rolled towel under your neck to support that cervical curve.

Same process as before. Start small—maybe with just an inch-thick folded towel—and begin at one minute a day. Build up slowly and progressively.

This is gradual correction. Think of it like braces on teeth. You don't wear braces for a week and suddenly have perfectly straight teeth. It takes months, sometimes years, of consistent gentle pressure to reshape the bone and ligaments into the right position.

The same principle applies to your spine. It takes time. But it works.

The Results You Can Expect

By incorporating these solutions—especially traction—into your life, you're giving yourself a sustainable, safe way to support your spine, posture, and mobility.

You're not just managing symptoms. You're not taking a pill to mask the problem. You're actually fixing the root cause.

And that means you get to stay strong. You get to stay independent. You get to have energy.

I've seen it happen over and over again with my patients. They start sleeping better because their body isn't stuck in that constant stress state anymore. They have energy in the afternoon to actually do the things they want to do. They stand taller, and people notice. They can get down on the floor with their grandkids and get back up without even thinking about it.

They stop feeling old and start feeling like themselves again.

Your Next Step

Now, if you're reading this and thinking, "Okay, but what about my specific situation? I have this thing going on with my hip. My neck feels different than what you described. I've tried stuff before and it didn't work"—I get it.

Your spine is unique. Your body is unique. And sometimes you need a little extra personal attention to figure out exactly what's going on and what you need to do about it.

That's why I offer Virtual House Calls. We can get on a video call together, we can talk about you and your specific situation, and I can give you personalized recommendations based on what I see and what you tell me. And we can do this no matter where you are in the world, at no charge.

If that sounds helpful, you can book your Virtual House Call through the link on my website. Let's figure out exactly how your spine is affecting your energy—and how to get it back.

Because here's what I want you to remember: you don't have to accept being tired as your new normal. You don't have to slow down or sit on the sidelines or miss out on the things you want to do.

Your energy isn't gone. It's just trapped. And you're closer to getting it back than you think.

As always, Be Your Own Guarantee for your health and life.

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